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11 Ways to Seduce a Man
Seduction adds spice and a little romance to a man's (sometimes a bit boring) world. By displaying alpha female characteristics, YOU can be the woman who gives the gifts of pleasure, playfulness, and excitement to a man... and he will be so appreciative to you. Follow these easy steps to be a sexy Alpha Female seductress who can seduce a man with ease! :-)
What you'll need:
* Confidence
* Sex Appeal
* Self-Respect
* Femininity
* Love for YOU
1. Just relate. Don't let 'commitment' be the goal of your relating.
You know that saying about people being in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime? Why is it then that some women think that every attractive/successful/available man might be their "lifetime"? Really, the odds are slim.
Change your thinking and see every guy you meet as being a "reason"... to spend some time with and learn something from him.
When you do this, you send a powerful message to a man. You let him know that you are "checking him out", and you don't want to commit to just ANYone. You want the "special" one... the one who's up to your (Alpha Female) standards.
Relating with a man in this way takes "pressure" out of the equation. Pressure is the enemy of seduction. Give him space and he will want to spend more time with you. He'll know that he's not being looked at as your wedding ring provider. You won't look or feel needy, and that is incredibly attractive.
(-Free Seduction Tip-) Use less words in text/email than he does. I don't know why this has an effect on men, but it does. For some reason it comes off like you're less invested in the relationship which sends a strong statement to a man - that you're not like most women who simply want a commitment... with anyone. :-)
2. Find your signature scent.
Whether it's Victoria's Secret Heavenly mixed something from Bath and Body Works, or Caress soap and Pantene Shampoo... figure out what soap, perfume, body lotion, and/or hair product combination smells uniquely YOU.
This scent should make you feel sexy. Saving that awesome $150-a-bottle-perfume for special occasions is silly. Use it now... there's nothing more special than 'today'.
3. Be ALL woman... except for a few masculine traits.
To seduce a man, dress like a woman. Act like a woman. Walk like a woman (yeah girl, strut your stuff! :-) ).
Learn how to dance... seductive dance especially.
Have a soothing, soft, throaty tone to your voice. Not really high-pitched (girly) voice, but a suggestive, feminine one.
Then, when you're all woman-like, play up your masculine trait. The art of seduction lies in someone not being able to figure you out... make them want to by showing depth of character.
4. Have your own mind and provide mental stimulation.
A man may initially be attracted to a woman because of her beauty, but he wants to have someone he can talk to... someone who "gets" him. Keep your conversation interesting. Bonus points if you develop a killer sense of humor.
Save those boring vent-fests about your co-workers for your best friend, or better yet, a journal. (No one really cares that she keeps stealing your paper clips anyway) :)
When you engage a man's mind, you have an edge over the many women who don't know how to communicate. Listen more than you talk, but when you do talk, have something sassy, witty, or thoughtful to say. You create better relationships with anyone this way.
Be sure to be selective about how much you share about yourself... let it all unfold in its proper time.
5. Flirt with him, but be subtle.
If you are going to seduce a man, you need to learn how to flirt. ASAP. :) Show him that you are interested, but don't overdo it. A smile, a sidelong glance, laughing at his jokes (if they're funny), all work to let him know you're enjoying him.
Tap or stroke his arm gently as you talk to him. Grab for something at the same time that he does so that your fingers touch. Don't be too touchy-feely though... invading his space, making him hold your hand. That's not flirting, it's obnoxious.
6. After dating for a little while, let him know that you WANT him.
Men want to be desired just as much as we do. If you show a man that you want him sexually, you can really drive him wild. Let him know that he turns you on and that you find him "sexy".
So many women start dating a guy and after awhile use the words "cute" or "adorable" to describe him. Call him "Sexy" and watch his eyes light up. ;-)
11 Ways to Seduce a Man
Seduction adds spice and a little romance to a man's (sometimes a bit boring) world. By displaying alpha female characteristics, YOU can be the woman who gives the gifts of pleasure, playfulness, and excitement to a man... and he will be so appreciative to you. Follow these easy steps to be a sexy Alpha Female seductress who can seduce a man with ease! :-)
What you'll need:
* Confidence
* Sex Appeal
* Self-Respect
* Femininity
* Love for YOU
1. Just relate. Don't let 'commitment' be the goal of your relating.
You know that saying about people being in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime? Why is it then that some women think that every attractive/successful/available man might be their "lifetime"? Really, the odds are slim.
Change your thinking and see every guy you meet as being a "reason"... to spend some time with and learn something from him.
When you do this, you send a powerful message to a man. You let him know that you are "checking him out", and you don't want to commit to just ANYone. You want the "special" one... the one who's up to your (Alpha Female) standards.
Relating with a man in this way takes "pressure" out of the equation. Pressure is the enemy of seduction. Give him space and he will want to spend more time with you. He'll know that he's not being looked at as your wedding ring provider. You won't look or feel needy, and that is incredibly attractive.
(-Free Seduction Tip-) Use less words in text/email than he does. I don't know why this has an effect on men, but it does. For some reason it comes off like you're less invested in the relationship which sends a strong statement to a man - that you're not like most women who simply want a commitment... with anyone. :-)
2. Find your signature scent.
Whether it's Victoria's Secret Heavenly mixed something from Bath and Body Works, or Caress soap and Pantene Shampoo... figure out what soap, perfume, body lotion, and/or hair product combination smells uniquely YOU.
This scent should make you feel sexy. Saving that awesome $150-a-bottle-perfume for special occasions is silly. Use it now... there's nothing more special than 'today'.
3. Be ALL woman... except for a few masculine traits.
To seduce a man, dress like a woman. Act like a woman. Walk like a woman (yeah girl, strut your stuff! :-) ).
Learn how to dance... seductive dance especially.
Have a soothing, soft, throaty tone to your voice. Not really high-pitched (girly) voice, but a suggestive, feminine one.
Then, when you're all woman-like, play up your masculine trait. The art of seduction lies in someone not being able to figure you out... make them want to by showing depth of character.
4. Have your own mind and provide mental stimulation.
A man may initially be attracted to a woman because of her beauty, but he wants to have someone he can talk to... someone who "gets" him. Keep your conversation interesting. Bonus points if you develop a killer sense of humor.
Save those boring vent-fests about your co-workers for your best friend, or better yet, a journal. (No one really cares that she keeps stealing your paper clips anyway) :)
When you engage a man's mind, you have an edge over the many women who don't know how to communicate. Listen more than you talk, but when you do talk, have something sassy, witty, or thoughtful to say. You create better relationships with anyone this way.
Be sure to be selective about how much you share about yourself... let it all unfold in its proper time.
5. Flirt with him, but be subtle.
If you are going to seduce a man, you need to learn how to flirt. ASAP. :) Show him that you are interested, but don't overdo it. A smile, a sidelong glance, laughing at his jokes (if they're funny), all work to let him know you're enjoying him.
Tap or stroke his arm gently as you talk to him. Grab for something at the same time that he does so that your fingers touch. Don't be too touchy-feely though... invading his space, making him hold your hand. That's not flirting, it's obnoxious.
6. After dating for a little while, let him know that you WANT him.
Men want to be desired just as much as we do. If you show a man that you want him sexually, you can really drive him wild. Let him know that he turns you on and that you find him "sexy".
So many women start dating a guy and after awhile use the words "cute" or "adorable" to describe him. Call him "Sexy" and watch his eyes light up. ;-)
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